How Can I Keep People From Making The Same Mistake as Me?

How Can I Keep People From Making The Same Mistake as Me?

By Billy Graham, Tribune Media Services



Q: I wish I could live my life over again. Almost 30 years ago, I got
involved with a man at work, and ended up wrecking my marriage and
marrying him. We're still together, but it hasn't been a happy life
and we mainly go our separate ways. Maybe my experience will keep
someone from going down that path. Believe me, it wasn't worth it. --
Mrs. W.S.




A: I too hope your letter will keep someone who is reading it from
doing the same thing you did. Satan will do everything he can to
deceive us and make us think we can ignore God and live for ourselves
-- but it simply isn't true.




I have often said in this column that one of life's hardest lessons is
that we can't go back and change the past -- much as we'd like to.
Decisions have consequences -- and when we make bad decisions, the
results are inevitably bad. The Bible says, "Do not be deceived: God
cannot be mocked. A man (or woman) reaps what he (or she) sows. The
one who sows to please his (or her) sinful nature, from that nature
will reap destruction" (Galatians 6:7-8).




But the Bible tells us two other important truths -- truths I hope you
will come to believe. First, no matter what we have done, God still
loves us, and He wants to forgive us and make us part of His family.
What you did in breaking your marriage vow was wrong, but God still
will forgive you if you will turn to Jesus Christ in repentance and
faith, and commit your life to Him.




Second, with Christ in your heart, your future can be different. He
can rekindle your love for your husband, and He can give you a new joy
and a new hope for the future. Don't let another day go by without
Christ.

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